Jul 06, 2010 Read the Transcript. His name is Elliot Katz and he is the author of the book Being The Strong Man a Woman Wants: Timeless Wisdom on Being a Man. Katz is a professional speech writer and author of seven nonfiction books ranging from topics on travel to the economy and Elliot lives in Toronto, Canada. And Elliot, welcome to the show.
(Read this article as: ) Because this is a page about attracting women, I’m obligated by internet law to plaster pictures of hot women all over it. She sat by herself at the bar of the restaurant. Her only company was a book. I sidled up near her, two stools apart, maybe three, as casual as I could muster. I would quote what I said, but my attempt at a joke sputtered out of me so poorly that I’m not even sure it made sense. She looked up at me and there was a moment of silence between us so awkward, you could have stabbed me in the groin and I wouldn’t have noticed.
Her face quickly went from confusion to disgust. My mind raced for some sort of recovery. Some sort of new, more clever joke to make up for my failed attempt at my original, semi-clever joke. Nothing came. In the past, I sulked away in this situation having embarrassed myself again. But this time something in me snapped — or not snapped, but rather, something resigned itself. I sighed and said, “I’m sorry, I was trying to be clever.
I just wanted to say hi.” The air eased between us a bit. Her disgust faded and she gave me kind of a friendly grin, “It’s OK. It was a nice try I guess.” I laughed, “No it wasn’t.” She laughed and I sat down next to her. There’s a lot of advice on attracting women out there. And what most of it misses is that attraction, seduction, intimacy, sex, whatever you want to call it — is an emotional process, not a physical or social one. You can say the “wrong” things and still attract a woman.
You can say all of the “right” things and repel her. What matters is the intention, the motivation, the authenticity.
To improve your dating life, you must improve your emotional life — how you feel about yourself and others, how you express yourself to others, etc. It’s not about learning lines or routines or dressing up a certain way. It’s about unmasking the unique and attractive man within yourself and joyfully expressing it to the women of the world.
That may sound vague, but it has very real repercussions on your interactions with women. People choose who they’re going to be with based on how they feel around that person.
For us men, it’s often quite simple. A beautiful woman makes us feel aroused, so we pursue sex with her. If we feel cared for, respected and admired by her, we pursue a relationship with her. But women experience sexuality differently than we do, so it can be a bit more complicated and hard for us to decipher what makes them feel attracted to us. But the principle remains the same. Women go with men who make them feel a certain way.
There are a number of ways to elicit emotion in a woman, and the way in which you go about eliciting that emotion will determine the quality and quantity (or lack thereof) of the relationships you have with women. What’s I’m saying is this: you’ll find a lot of varying advice out there on how to attract women — some will say to tease them, some will say to be selfish and rude around them, some will say to buy them gifts, others will say to be cold and calculating — whichever of these avenues you choose to pursue with women, that is the corresponding relationship you’ll create. The way which you pursue women will determine which ones you end up with. If you choose to be cold, calculating and manipulative with women, you will naturally screen for women who will create a cold, calculating and manipulative relationship with you.
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